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Upper case does NOT always imply female in this chatroom, just as lower case is NOT always male. Its a major turn off when a guy comes in saying ' I want to serve! they are JUST looking for attention why give them what they want???Put these people on Ignore and talk about something else.DON'T ask questions like, "What do you do with your sub? If you notice a sub who has the respect of the Dommes, sure envy him, but also watch him and learn from him!

Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.

1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.

If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners.

The other half of this is "Don't kiss my butt unless I TELL you to kiss it." Not everyone wants their hind parts sucked on. There are probably 10 guy subs for every female Domme.

If you expect it to shift into real time, for gawd sake, try to find someone who has more to offer you than just D/s.

D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life.9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..Don't lead subs on to submit to you if you are just sub collecting for the heck of it, or if you have no intention of actually taking care of this person's well being.Domming someone is a lot more than dressing in black and beating the crap out of your sub.that most submissive men are very MUCH Men, they just know what they like,which is to please their Mistress in EVERY Way possible (within their limits) 12) Honesty is VERY important online, if you are married ADMIT it, there are a lot of other married folks online looking for something non-committal Just be open and honest, its the best thing to do .Entering an on line chat room and announcing "On your knees! You might impress the dazzled and the desperate, but real dominants and submissives will laugh at you.Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.Establishing a presence as an intelligent, dominant person will go far to bring you to the attention of the intelligent, PICKY subs as a Domme worth having.Real power shows itself in politeness and in good manners.

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