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Hayley Alexis has been blogging about Germany ever since she landed in Munich from the US about two years ago.

Her You Tube videos about life in Munich have garnered a sizeable following, particularly those about romance in Deutschland.

‘Til Death Do Us Pay Rent Financial stability and safety are supreme values for Germans, sometimes even above relationships.

“I met so many guys that will ask, ‘Why did you break up with her?

“My ex [German] boyfriend liked it but didn’t need it.” Sex, like many of life’s activities, should ideally be scheduled. They’re just not a sexual type of people.” You could look like a knockout at a club, and German men may not turn their heads, but it’s not because you’re not beautiful. Not a date or anything, but when I hang out with Americans, it’s amazing.” On the upside, you don’t have to deal with catcalls.

On the other, they could make you feel like a nympho.

Some research suggests that BPD is a disorder often identified and diagnosed mainly in women.

Rarely is it ever diagnosed or even considered a diagnosis for a man. Because the pre-established gender norms (that are limited) have made identifying symptoms of BPD difficult in men.Do you or someone you know exhibit the following characteristics: frequent self-injurious behaviors (SIB), suicidal ideations or suicide attempts, frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment, unstable and intense interpersonal relationships that include alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation, identity disturbance, impulsivity (acting before thinking), chronic feelings of emptiness, and inappropriate and intense emotions that are sometimes disproportional to the trigger?Many of these characteristics make up the term Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).Or maybe it’s because German spas are co-ed nudist spas, so they become immune to the bare breast (then again, what comes first, chicken or egg…).“I feel like they can, of course, have sex and they like sex but it’s not a necessity for them,” she said. Structure isn’t good sex, and to be in a good relationship you have to have sex.Eventually, after “hanging out” with her boyfriend, Mike, for over two years (“hanging out” is often the equivalent of German courtship), they officially became an item. “I was staying the night and I said, ‘I hate waking up early in the morning with the lights on.’ So he was trying to be really sweet to me and put candles in the bathroom, and I didn’t want to make any noise, so I bent down and…sizzle…. ’” Yes, getting your hair accidently burnt is not practical. You are NOT fat You know how when a woman asks her beau if she’s gained weight, he’s supposed to say: “You’re perfect.” Well, don’t expect that from a Deutscher, and that’s not because they’re Deutschbags. One time, Alexis was in line at the supermarket and a man cut in front of her.“We fight constantly because he’s so ,” Hayley said over Skype from Munich. If I put my glasses on the wrong way of the table, he turns it.” You may notice a small bald spot on the right side of her head. When I told him my hair burnt, he said, ‘It really smells – how are we going to clean this up? “And I said, ‘you did that because I’m black,’ and I was kidding.And he paid for my stuff and said: ‘I’m sorry.’” Patience is a Virtue Don’t expect a whirlwind romance.German men tend to be quite calculated and patient upon entering a relationship.They might pop in and out based on vacation periods, or when they have a work deadline, or if they are hanging up curtains.“I’m going to south Africa for two weeks, I’ll text you then,” Hayley recalls one date telling her. Maybe it’s because they’re like machines, German men could easily switch off their sex drive.

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